After buying a land, drawing the plan and laying the foundation, how would it be if you ask some one whether to build a house or not?
The chance is high that you go on with your decision of building a house despite a negative response from the other party, right?
So is the case with your marital issues.
It makes no sense meeting a counselor and stating no change occurred once you decide to get divorced due to the extreme state of affairs.
It is recommended to take the right action before the distance between the two becomes a deep trench.
Even if it is just one person who is ready to meet the counselor, he or she must go on with the decision.
One cannot control others behavior, but it is possible to influence for behaving in a desired way.
Marital Counseling- The Truth
A psychologist is not a priest to give advises, neither he is a magician to use magic tricks to get a quick cure for problems.
A psychologist is some one who has studied at least for five years on behavior and mental process of individuals and societies and her perspective on your problem is completely based on scientific studies and experience.
According to the individual or the nature of the problem, the psychologist chooses the right option among different therapies and counseling.
However, the one who is at the receiving end of the counseling must cooperate with the counselor to reach the expected outcome.
A counselor helps us to rectify those behaviors, thought process and attitudes, which lead to issues in marital life and replace them with the correct ones so that your relationship with your partner gets strengthened.
Psychologists believe every individual is different and based on each one’s strengths, preferences, values, culture and social norms they adopt different strategies for different people.
“Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything”- George Bernard Shaw
At Wellness Clinic, we are one of India’s best psychology counseling centers. Our team comprises clinical psychologists, counseling psychologists, family therapists, and remedial educators. We are ensured to provide the best mental health services. For more Information do contact us.